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Wifely Submission Can Be A Joy

Isn’t it a bit scandalous in this day and culture to say that? Submission is a joy. It’s not a yoke, it’s not an act that makes me feel subservient, …

The Most Godly Woman I Know Has A Messy Home

Silly, silly me. I braced myself for culture shock when we moved abroad, but I wasn’t expecting the most shock to come to my faith. I didn’t realize God was …

8 Ways To Love the Immigrant or Refugee Living Next to You

For about 3 years while Bobby attended seminary in Fort Worth, Texas, we partnered up with a handful of peers to live among refugees in our city. At that time, …

Steps Leading to Adultery: Impure Thoughts in the Marriage Bed

Just to get it out there, yes, this post is about sex, thoughts, and the marriage bed. This should be a safe post for anyone who struggles with sexual immorality …

When the Mundane Prepares for Ministry after Hurricanes

Today I want to encourage you with a look into the life of Abbie Oehrig Sawyer, wife of Luke Sawyer. Their family has been working in the Dominican Republic via …

In Him I Hope: He Will Bring an End to All Injustice

Near and far, young and old, recognized as Americans or not, connected by screens, hurricanes, football, protests, and a painful history, we are all groaning inwardly. We all are looking …

5 Types of Female Friends Every Christian Woman Should Have

I doubt I’m the first person to exhort you to this, but I do want to put this out there as a reminder for you and for myself: All of …

Seeking Out Vulnerable Relationships in Cold Churches

“I feel alone at church.” “There aren’t other women at church who understand what I’m going through.” “We’ve invited every single family at our church to our home, but they …

Katie Frugé Choosing Joy in Tough Trials

If you’ve ever had the pleasure of meeting Katie and DL Frugé, you will notice that they both have a sweetness of faith wrapped up in a duality of fun-and-truth …

Why I Share My Sexual Sin So Publicly

Last week my husband sat me down to shower me with words of encouragement. He decided to do this to focus on loving me and speaking grace into my life. …